Why do parents pressurise children’s?
I think a lot about this question. They think that they’re always correct. It’s not true I think. Pressurizing them for doing something against there will is really very bad. When he’s born they’ll decide that our son will become a doctor. Our son will do IIT. And as a little child he’ll feel good because everyone is giving him so much attention. But he’s unaware that they’re going to put all the expectations on him. They’ll pressurise him so much that he’ll start doubting himself. They’ll create a depressing atmosphere for him. He’ll feel that mental breakdown. He’ll become silent and start loosing hope from life. Every social contact will be banned from his life. They’ll say to him “dear just study for one year , you’ll get a good college and everyone in society will appreciate us.” Us? I know you gave life to him by giving him birth but you’re no one to force him to do something in which he is feeling depressed. It’s his life and stop creating a depressing atmosphere for him. He’s just a little child who needs your support and pampering. Everything you are telling him to do is just for sake of image in society. What if he finish himself? What if he goes in trauma? You’ll will loose your child FOREVER. And people in your society will talk shit about you and your child after that and yeah you can’t control them. Your son needs you not that society. If you don’t wanna loose him than stop putting your expectations on him. If you’ll support him he’ll definitely do something great in his life.
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